Are we well enough into the new year for me to ask if any of you have broken your new year's resolutions yet? I sure have broken some of them by now... 2 out of 3 to be exact.
I wonder how that happens. How is it that so many of us are so hopeful on the 31st of December and so shattered by the end of January? Is it simply that we don't have enough self-control? Or are we making our goals too vague or too unattainable? Are we setting a goal without thinking through the action steps that will get us there?
I don't know... and this is NOT what this post is about.
This post is about a DIFFERENT kind of a resolution.
See, one thing I noticed about the new year's resolutions - they are all about ourselves. This year I will lose weight, I will exercise more, I will eat healthier, I will read my Bible every day, I will get out of debt, I will be a better parent - and even though all those are honorable goals - they are all "I... I... I... I..."
So this year I am choosing something different. This year I resolve not to seek my own gain, not to focus on how I can better myself. This year I want my resolutions to be about others.
So here's my UPDATED new year's resolution:
In 2013 I resolve:
*to make my birthday more meaningful by raising funds for the orphans in need instead of hoping for presents*
*to do one random act of kindness each month to a person who is not family or friend (a small and manageable and therefore realistic goal)*
*to stick with my resolution #3 (was not about me but about obeying God in a certain area of my life so it made the list)*
What can you resolve to do this year to make this world just a tiny bit better?
(You may chat in comments if you'd like)